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Wednesday, October 27, 2010

The love of my life

The love of my life at the moment is not my hubby, it's my baby. He's special and new and little and helpless and sweet. I just love him SO much. Don't get me wrong, I love the rest of my family too but right now Dequan is number one. So much is happening in his development and it's so exciting. It seems he learns something new every day. Right now his thing is walking and running around the house, spinning around, wrestling with Javari, chasing Hakeem, giving us things and waiting for us to say "thank you", laughing, saying "mama", making us smile, fake crying (he'll even lay down and put his face on the floor, very dramatic), spilling my drinks, putting his hand in the toilet when Javari pees (yuck!), nursing, pooping dark green poop, kissing us, biting my chin, sleeping through the night, dancing, etc etc, everything he does is so darn cute, even putting his hand in the potty. :)

Look how cute he was yesterday. He had an accident and I only had this body in the diaper bag, no pants. :)

He took my water bottle and ran!


"Here you go Mommy."

I helped Hakeem with a Nevada project for school this weekend. We were able to use our recent pictures from hikes to Red Rock and Mt Charleston. The rest is clippings from the Nevada Magazine that someone at their paper nicely sent to us for free.

I would love to see wild horses some time.

I just managed to forget about my ramen noodles and burn the pan a little while writing this (Dequan was falling asleep in my lap so I didn't get up when the timer rang). Thank God for Javari being my extra eyes, and mind!


Farm visit

This past Saturday we went to a real farm here in the area. Strange enough we never knew it existed and they have a Halloween event every year. The boys really liked it because they got to ride a pony and see other animals. They had a small hay maze as well. We didn't get a pumpkin since we don't decorate our house for Halloween (only for Christmas).

Mario aka Hakeem.

Ninja Turtle aka Javari.

Running around with friends.

Go Dequan!

"Hmm, what's this?"


I can never get them all to look at the camera.


It's getting cold here finally. Yesterday morning when I got up at 6:30 it was 69 or 70 degrees in the house. That feels really cold when you're used to 80! Outside it was even colder with a chilly wind. Today is a little better.

Friday, October 22, 2010

Halloween has started already

Javari made a super easy halloween craft at preschool today that I just have to share. We have almost everything at home so I will have Hakeem do it too. Or maybe save it for the halloween party we're having with our playgroup soon (not at my house but I'm helping since I'm the group organizer). I have a leftover pumpkin craft too from yesterday's halloween craft that we did at one member's house that I'm saving for the party. I've been getting stuff for the goodie bags this week and it's so fun to prepare for an event. I think I like the planning part more than the actual party. :)

Pumpkin we made yesterday and Javari's ghost picture.

How to: you need black construction paper, cotton balls, googly eyes, and stars. These stars are punched out of construction paper but you could just trace and cut your own or use star stickers. Then just glue everything onto the paper. Pretty self-explanatory right?

More pumpkins plus sun catchers that we painted.

Javari dressed up as a Ninja Turtle (there's an eye mask to go with it too).

Dequan absolutely hates hats so this was the best shot I could get of his alien (from Toy Story) costume.

Oops, I think he's mad at me.

Look at all that fun food! :)

The following pictures are from last year's halloween craft playdate. The host had us paint spiders and make little pumpkins, so cute. One spider is a ladybug, one has a cross on it's back, one looks Darth Vader-ish with red eyes, some have heart-shaped lips, etc. You can really use your imagination with these. If you want to be more realistic you can put eight eyes on them. We need to make some more of these because I don't know where I put them!

Spider attack!

Look how short Javari's hair was!


Sunday, October 17, 2010

Learning is fun

I was just thinking that it's important to not just focus on reading but other areas of knowledge as well, like math for example. So many kids struggle with math in school so I think it's a good idea to lay down the foundation for math concepts early through informal teaching at home. I was one of the kids struggling with math and thought math really sucked. One time I was so frustrated with my homework that I threw the math book on the floor and took off running in the forest behind my house. I hate running but that's how mad I was! I didn't get it until college and then I even had A's in all my math classes. I just wish I would have gotten it earlier and not struggled so much. Early math activities for young children may include; numbers, counting, simple addition, puzzles, shapes, patterns, the concept of more or less and bigger or smaller, color by number sheets, sorting, comparing, etc. Most important of all - make math fun and don't force it!

Javari told me today that 2+2 is 4. He sounded so proud when he said that. :)

What do you like to teach your kids?

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Learning to read activities

Javari has learned how to write his name recently and that is so cool. Preschool has been very fun and motivating for him. It's also fun to watch him try to write other words. It's random letters floating on the paper. I just finished reading a book called Raising Confident Readers by Dr. J. Richard Gentry and was inspired. The book gives suggestions on reading activites to do with your baby up to kids ages 7. It suggests that you start with reading at birth and then slowly introduce other activities such as drawing and labeling a few items in the baby's room to book making and using blocks and letter tiles. My oldest is in second grade and he started reading shortly after turning 5. I was doing a lot of the suggestions in the book before he started school. I didn't read anything on the topic, it was just natural. I read books aloud to him almost nightly; he would draw sometimes; we had magnetic letters and letter puzzles; he watched the Leap Frog video The Letter Factory and learned all the phonics from it; he occassionally did workbooks and many other activities. Shortly after I started moving my finger under the text while reading Hakeem started reading all of a sudden. I was really surprised because I didn't think I was actually teaching him to read. It was the best feeling listening to him read, right up there with his first baby steps. I think it was good for him to be reading before starting Kindergarten so he wasn't behind in any way. I want to make sure my other two boys can do that as well.

Javari wrote his name really good today. I will give him a marker next time so you can see better.

You can get this book from the library.

Unfortunately with my 4-year-old I haven't been doing as much home teaching as I did with my first child. You just get busier the more kids you have. That's partly why I wanted him to go to preschool at least a little bit. He only goes two days a week for two hours at a time. He started six weeks ago but I already see him benefiting from it. He knew about half the alphabet before he started and I think by the end of the spring semester he will be reading a little bit or at least recognizing some words. Literacy is so exciting!

My baby is 11 months old now and there's quite a few reading activities I can do with him already. Reading aloud is very important. Earlier this week I got him some baby crayons and markers, you know the ones from Crayola with the big plastic grips for baby hands. It's for babies 18 months and up but the book suggests that I let him draw, or scribble rather, so we'll try. I have only tried once so far and he was just banging the crayons on the paper. I'm sure he'll catch on soon though.
They have the Tadoodles at pretty much any store, including Walmart.

A few days ago I decided to try the labeling around the room activity. It is recommended for both phase 0 and 1 (more on the phases later), i.e. for both Javari (age 4) and Dequan (age 11 months). I took a bunch of blank index cards and a marker and called all three kids into their room. After I wrote a couple of cards the older two were really into it and wanted to help (they pretty much snatched the marker out of my hand!). I wrote some of the cards in Swedish and surprisingly Hakeem wanted to help with that. He often says he "hates" Swedish. Spanish is cooler of course since he learns it in school and he has classmates who speak Spanish. Javari used his kid writing to spell words, which is really interesting to watch. It's important to praise, not correct.

Hand has the same spelling in both English and Swedish.

Javari's writing on top.

Hakeem wrote Jersey.

All in all a good start on Dequan's literacy journey and a continuation on Javari's. I will update more on their progress as we go. I'm taking down notes from the book so I can share some of the reading activities with you soon.


Wednesday, October 13, 2010

We had a dear visitor in town

My mom went home yesterday so now everything's back to normal I guess. It was a really intensive two weeks where we did stuff almost daily. I'm still recovering, and now all the kids are home sick so we're getting some extra rest. Hopefully I won't catch their bug. Yeah right, I have no immune system! Here are some things we have done while mom was here...

Shopping at Town Square:



Train ride in Boulder City:


Art Festival in Boulder City:


Hiking at Red Rock: 



Shopping in Primm:


Watching Dequan walking in new shoes he got from mormor (grandma):



Walking the Strip:


Hiking at Red Rock again:


Does that look scary or what?!


Saying bye bye (time went by too fast):


We went on a family hike at Mt Charleston just the 5 of us:


Robber's Roost trail


It's always easy up but down was a different (scary!) story.

At the picnic area where it was pretty cold.

Hakeem and Javari exploring in the forest.

Talk about temper tantrum!

Tomorrow is my mom's birthday so "Happy Birthday to You!" if you read this.